Get Stable then Settle Down

So, the long wait is over. After like, 4years abroad, Steve's sister's boyfriend finally decides to stay here in the Philippines for good. They're getting married this October! Finally and Yehey! Apparently, she's the last sister to get married. Out of the 4sisters. She's the youngest of the sisters too, Ate Ann, but she's 31yrs old. Funny how all Steve's siblings got married past the age of 30. That leaves Steve and his other brother, Kuya JR, 30, the one before him, unmarried out of them 7siblings.




I expect the family to persuade the brother to be the next one to get married... but No... it's US. That's because they don't see any stable plans Kuya JR is doing, and his girlfriend of 5years just graduated from MedSchool this year. So there's totally NO plans of settling down any time sooner.

As for me and Steve, we got plans for ourselves too yah know! For Steve, he needs to get his van fixed. He's striving to get it overhauled before this year or mid-next year ends. Then he said he needs to save up for a house or atleast a place we can live in when we settle down.

For me, I just wanna see our house in Laguna all complete and cozy. Then a car, a place to live in Manila, near my workplace. Then save up for another degree. I can take up the degree even if I'm married anyway. Well, those are my plans so far.

First things first... I wanna live my SINGLEDOM to the FULLEST! Maybe settle down when im around 26yrsold at the least. I also don't want to keep my hopes up that it's really Steve im gonna end up with. We'll never know. If we manage to keep our relationship on fire until then, then maybe he is the one. If not, i'd still be grateful.

I even think I wanna be Really SINGLE before i say "i do"... but i guess Steve won't approve of that. It'll just convince him that I wanna be in another relationship even if I just want to be called SINGLE for a while. SHEESH, boys. lol. They can be pretty possessive too yah know. oh well.